How to Merge Two Households into One

Whether you’re moving in a roommate or a new spouse, combining two households can become complicated. You’re pretty much going to have two sets of everything. Two couches, two mixers, two desks, etc. You may also not agree with their décor choices. It’s exciting wanting to move in with someone but it can become stressful. Here are some tips that will help you transition with moving in with someone who has their own set of items.

Communication is important in any type of relationship. You need to be respectful of each other’s and each other’s space. If you don’t like something, don’t be aggressive about it. If you don’t like a chair, you can discuss with them about possibility getting it reupholstered. Just as you are open-minded and your roommate is as well, your living together will go a lot smoother.

 

When combining two households, you will have various duplicates. Try opting for the newer, higher quality items to keep. You need to make sure to keep in mind how much space you will have. If you have extra couches, you can stick them in a basement. For duplicate items that you simply don’t have the room for, try selling them online. You can sell them at a garage sale, a Facebook group, or even an app like LetGo.

 

To help ease into combining households, try and get rid of any extra items. Go through all your clothes and get rid of items you no longer wear. Get rid of any items that you don’t need. The less items you have to bring in, the better. Not only will this make moving in easier, but it will help you save time for discussions later on.

 

Do you need your own office? Or at least an area for a desk? Does you roommate have a cat and need an area for a litter box? These are some questions that should be addressed before you begin to move all your stuff in. It’s a good idea to go around the house and get an idea of where you both would like items, making sure to try and meet each other’s needs.

 

If you have some items that you want to keep but don't have the space, consider getting a storage unit. Your roommate may also have some items that may not want to get rid of either. You can share a storage unit as well and split the cost. This way, you both get to keep your items and they will be space and sound.